During what I thought was a routine visit to the doctor after my surgery I was informed that they found cancer cells in the uterus. The pathology report from my surgery had just come in the day before my scheduled appointment. I was in a bit of shock because the initial reports came back negative. My first thought was: BAD TIMING! I don't have time to go through this, I just started back to school, I am in the middle of home-schooling my children and preparing them for AIMS , I am directing a choir that will be performing next month, etc........ I had a million reasons running through my mind of why this can't happen now. But really, is there ever a good time?
The doctor is very optimistic and so am I. This is a very curable cancer when caught early. I will be going in for surgery in March at which time they will perform a hysterectomy and access the situation. I would be lying if I said that I wasn't a tiny bit nervous, but I am going forward with life as usual.
My married children held a council just after they received word. Of course, I wasn't invited. They sat down and planned out the entire month of March to make sure I stay down and recuperate. They know me well.
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Aimee and Michele and the rest will be coming over daily to watch my younger kids, home school them, and help me keep up with things. Mar-Kell's mother-in-law, whom I refer to as my new 'sister' will be coming over to teach my piano students for me so that I will not lose any income during this time. When you are self-employed you don't have sick leave.This is a great sacrifice for everyone. Everyone has their own lives, work and families, not to mention that both Aimee and Michele are VERY pregnant, and yet they are willing to sacrifice on my behalf. Words cannot express my heart-felt thanks.
I am so richly blessed to have such a wonderful family who supports me in all that I do or have to endure.
Thank you for your love and support.
Now you know why I haven't blogged for a while. I just haven't known what to say. Not to mention school is taking up much of my extra time.
Things are different now. My perspective on life is more focused and I am moving forward with a smile on my face, grateful to be in the caring arms of my family.
Wow now it makes sense why you are not blogging. I have missed those but i can understand how busy you are and what you mind must be doing. Please feel free to ask for help. I am glad to see that the children have made a plan. We will be praying for your health and strength to return.
ReplyDeleteI love how you said why is this happening now, instead of why is this happening.-You must have great faith in heavenly father's will for you,and with the great go-gett'um personality that you have I know you'll be just fine:)-good luck in everything, and hope recovery goes well- you'll be in our prayers.
ReplyDeleteOh, and don't forget that my family and I are coming over to cook dinner for you all on Sunday, March 14th! :)
ReplyDeleteAs we gathered as brothers and sisters I was so grateful to be in a family that pulls together and serves one another in times of need. That is what familes are all about! We love you, are praying for you, and will be there by your side as you recover! Hang in there mom!
You have such an amazing family. I'm grateful that you are so well taken care of and watched over so carefully. I'm glad you're back to blogging, I've missed you.
ReplyDeletemy comment disappeared?? Just want to say you have wonderful kids and they made the life so fulfilled and joyful! I pray things go well with your health. I know you will!
ReplyDeleteThoughts and prayers are with you! Keep your chin up and body down during recovery... :) REST!
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